Can someone help me understand this restraining order?

First, you need to clarify whether Stipulation 8 or Stipulation 3 doesn't apply. If it is Stipulation 8 that doesn't apply and stipulation 3 does apply, then we would need to know if your property is, in fact, your residence. For instance, if you owned Walt Disney World, that would be your property. She could, however, remain employed and work there as long as she did not abuse you or contact you. If however, she is your housekeeper at your residence, then she would be required to stay away from your residence and not be allowed to continue working.